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Wasting money…

Friday, June 18th, 2010

I found a great article for today on Walletpop.com, titled 10 products you”re wasting your money on.  Not only is the article funny, but it does point out several things that people buy/spend money on that are unnecessary. 

My favorite item on the list has to be weddings, since I have somewhat of a personal vendetta against high cost weddings.  It’s not that I don’t want people to have a nice wedding full of memories, it’s just that I don’t think we need to spend an average of $19,000 (according to the article) to make these memories.  Friends and family make the memories of your wedding (trust me on this), not the decorations.  Use less expensive decorations/venues to cut costs.  Have a friend throw you a “stock the bar” shower as opposed to a lingerie shower, since we all know that the lingerie ends up on the floor anyway, and save a ton on booze.  Either way, cut your costs, and put that money into savings!

Another favorite off the list?  Kitchen gadgets!  We all love them and we all buy them (unless of course, you use your kitchen as a closet or can only cook 5 meals, and therefore eat our a lot), but do we really need them?  Be honest!  Do you really need that pasta maker?  Have you ever made pasta from scratch?  Or is it more likely that you bought the gadget and still buy your pasta pre-made from the grocery?  Whatever the gadget, chances are you don’t need it!  You should either save that cash, or put it toward something useful, like saving it up to buy a good set of knives or cookware!

There are 8 other items on the list, which I strongly suggest you check out!  Some are funny (electronic litter box, anyone??), and others are practical, but all are a waste of money!

We would like to take this time to wish everyone a Happy Father’s Day this Sunday, and would also like to notify you that we will be taking next week off from writing, as we celebrate the birth of our daughter.  As our regular readers know, we take family time very seriously, and think that spending time loving each other is a key element in a happy marriage, and of course, loving more and living better.  Therefore, that is what we’re going to do next week!  Have a great week next week, and we’ll see you soon!

Father’s Day gifts for the frugal shopper, and neat ideas for the NEW DADDY!

Wednesday, June 16th, 2010

Last month we posted some ideas for the frugal shopper looking to get mom something special for Mother’s Day, and now, with Father’s Day fast approaching, we’ve decided to post several links to websites that have some great tips for the gift givers!  For ideas on inexpensive gifts for Father’s Day, check out the following links:

  • Better Budgeting - Some great ideas here!  My favorite is the idea of yard service.  This is great for the father who doesn’t relish the idea of getting out in the heat and working in the yard.   A truly thoughtful gift.
  • About.com - As for this website, I personally like the “week of special lunches”, since Jerrill takes his lunch to work everyday.  I think this might top my list for next years Father’s Day!
  • iVillage.com - This has some good tips for the 1st Father’s Day for a new dad!  The big idea here is keeping it simple and inexpensive, and I wholeheartedly agree, since most men I know wouldn’t want you to break the bank on their Father’s Day gift anyway.  Men are men.  If they want something for themselves, they generally go get it!
  • Associated Content - This has some sweet ideas and some funny ideas for the new dad.  I LOVE the “new dad diaper changing survival kit”!  This is a great little funny gift for the dad with a sense of humor!

So, with my baby about to be born any day now, you might be asking what your favorite southern woman has done for her man on Father’s Day.  Well, I have 2 presents in store for him (I don’t mind sharing…he’s a little busy with baby stuff right now, and won’t likely be reading this week’s posts, haha).  The first is a picture frame that will have our first family picture in it, that he can take to work.  The second is my favorite however.  I have had his wedding band inscribed, something personal from just me to him, because even though it is Father’s Day, the joy of our baby would not have been possible without our love and devotion to each other, and it’s always good for couples to remember that.

Hope these links help you find the ideal and frugal gift for your dad!  Good luck!

Something sweet? How about free doughnuts TODAY!

Friday, June 4th, 2010

Today’s article is about National Doughnut Day, which is today, June 4, 2010!  The article, Honor history and eat a (free) doughnut, by Teresa Mears, tells the history of the doughnut (who knew that National Doughnut Day started in 1938 as a fund-raiser for the Salvation Army??) with regard to the U.S.  and all kinds of other fun facts for the reader.  I loved all the trivia!  What did I love more?  The info about free doughnuts, since as most of our readers know, we’re love deals and freebies!  So, where can you get free doughnuts?  Read on:

  • Krispy Kreme – 1 free doughnut per customer, no purchase necessary!
  • Dunkin’ Donuts – free doughnut WITH the purchase of a beverage!
  • LaMar’s – 1 free Ray’s Original Glazed Doughnut, no purchase necessary!
  • Shipley Do-Nuts – Free glazed doughnut WITH purchase UNTIL noon!

Don’t have one of these shops near your house?  Check with local mom and pop shops to see if they’re celebrating the day!  If not, explain the day and see if you can get a freebie (or freebie with purchase).  Hey, it never hurts to ask!  Have a great National Doughnut Day and happy eating! 


A special thanks goes out to Amy for bringing such a yummy article to our attention!

What it truly means to live within your means!

Wednesday, May 26th, 2010

We all know that living within your means is, in its most basic form, living within your household budget.  However, I wanted to point out that there are many other ways that we overspend at work, for example, that can be adjusted and will help more people than just ourselves!

Let’s talk about being a teacher.  It’s a truly stressful job.  They have 100 students (at least) every day that need to be educated with not only the subject that the teacher is charged with teaching but also the life lessons that some of our more lackadaisical parents “don’t bother to” or “forget to” teach their children at home (FYI…it is NOT the job of a school teacher to teach your children the good morals and values of our society…that is in YOUR jurisdiction!).  Needless to say, it’s a little overwhelming.  What’s more, the money system set up around the education system (at least the parts I know about, as I am not an expert) is ludicrous.  For example, the school system allots each teacher a certain number of copies that they are allowed to make per year on the copy machine, and if they want to make more, they have to pay for them!  That puts added and undue pressure on the teacher, because let’s face it, toner and copy paper are cheap.

 However, silly as it is, it is the workplace version of “living within your means”.  But not all teachers do.  They will either spend money out of their own pocket to buy supplies, or send home a list of supplies that the parent MUST provide for all of the various projects the teacher wants to do.  All I have to say is, my oh my, what a mess!  Teachers are given a budget.  They should have to work within that budget (and yes, I am absolutely certain that their budget is too low and doesn’t help much, but it is what it is).  By buying supplies out of their own pocket, they are saying that the budget is meaningless, and that sets the wrong example for the students.  I love the generous nature, but they shouldn’t take the burden on themselves and set a bad example for the children.  And if they decide to pass the cost onto the parent?  Well, the parents at home have their own budgets and money problems to worry about, and the decision to have all of these wonderful projects impacts them too!

So, what is a teacher to do since they’re being squeezed on both sides?  Get creative!  If they figure out less costly projects and methods for teaching the same lesson, they will be able to stay within the budget the school set for them without passing the cost on to the parents!  I know that the replacement projects won’t be as full of bells and whistles, but the object of the lesson is to teach something, and that usually doesn’t require fancy projects.  Also, as long as the teacher has a computer with an Internet connection, she can show the students whatever she wants to show them!  For example…let’s say the teacher originally wanted to have the students build volcanoes for science class.  All she has to do is have them read the chapter, discuss it in class, then show the students this on the projector.  It’s not AS cool, but it works and it’s pretty much free!

I’m not trying to pick on teachers, just so you know.  I just wanted to give an example of how we have a mental disconnect between living within our means at home and at work.  We shouldn’t be frugal at home and a spendthrift at work.  Apply the same principles at both places, and get creative on your savings!

Update on Microsoft Office for free!

Friday, May 14th, 2010

Today we’re sharing an article titled Like free software?  You’ll love Microsoft Office 2010, that is an update to a previous post on our website. 

As of this past Wednesday, Microsoft released its Office 2010 Suite to businesses around the globe, and is planning a release date in June for individual consumers.  Why is this big news?  Because this release includes an online component called Web Apps…for FREE! 

So, what are Web Apps?  They are applications that have the ability to create, edit, view and share files online, similar to GoogleDocs, that are accessed on Microsoft’s SkyDrive website.  And the best part is that you don’t have to buy the software suite to be able to use the online tools!  Microsoft has made the decision to offer most of Office 2010 (some things are disabled) for free to anyone in an attempt to compete with (squash??) the rising popularity of Google Docs. 

Basically, they want you to use their software!  They want that brand loyalty to continue!  They DO NOTwant you to switch to Google Docs or Open Office!  Microsoft finally realized that in order to keep their brand in use and popular with the younger and future generations, they were going to have to offer some things for free.  On top of that, they are offering free storage space on their SkyDrive website for your documents, so you don’t even have to save it to your own PC (which is a little weird to me, but I’m  skeptic). 

For those of you that want “your own copy”(those of you who are even more skeptical than me), there are some acceptable price point packages.  For a middle of the road package, you can get Microsoft Office Home and Business, which sells for $279 in a box (in the store), or $199 for a product key and includes Word 2010, Excel 2010, PowerPoint 2010, OneNote 2010, and Outlook 2010.  If that is more than you need, you can pay $149 for the box version or $119 for the product key card version of Microsoft Office Home and Student.  This package offers Word 2010, Excel 2010, PowerPoint 2010, OneNote 2010, and the Office Web Apps.  The best part about this package is that it is available in a Family Pack, allowing use on three computers in one home, and let’s be honest…for the average user, this would be all you’d need. 

Our suggestion is to use the Web Apps tools online for free.  Learn to do what you need within the free version (as there will be disabled parts) so that you can save a bundle! 

Creative Mother’s Day ideas on the cheap!

Wednesday, May 5th, 2010

With mother’s day literally right around the corner, it’s time we discuss some fun and inexpensive ways to treat her on her special day.  You see, just because it’s a holiday, it doesn’t mean that that gives you a free pass to spend like crazy on gifts when you are trying to get out of debt.  So, in the spirit of frugality, I’ve found a couple of good websites with plenty of ideas on ways to make mom smile, with everything from cupcakes and creative bouquets to customizable vases. 

Check out celebrations.com to get ideas on:

  • Mother’s Day cupcakes
  • Gifts for your wife to be
  • Photo or herb bouquets
  • Mother’s Day poems

Check out abcnews.com for great ideas including:

  • Customized bracelets
  • Customizable vases
  • Photo books
  • DIY Flip flops
  • “Me” books (a great idea…very sweet)

There are plenty of low cost/no cost options to make mom happy on these sites, however, most of you should keep in mind that all most moms want for their special day is to see you and spend time with you.  A greeting card would be a nice bonus, but even that is probably optional.  Most moms really just want to know that you care and that you think of them.  So, if you don’t have the time or money, any gesture (like going for a visit) will do.  If, however, you want to do something special for Mother’s Day, these are some great low cost options, which is especially important for those of you following our guidance on frugal living to get out of debt! 

Good luck and  happy shopping to all the children out there.  To the mothers??  A very Happy Mother’s Day to all of you!

House buying when you’re learning to be frugal.

Monday, April 26th, 2010

I always wonder why people buy the size/amount of house they don’t need.  They look for 5ooo square feet (minimum?), hardwood, chef’s kitchen, marble this and that with several acres (where you can find it) of land etc. house.  This is the silliest thing I’ve ever seen.  One of the things your favorite southern couple would like you to ponder is to buy the house you need, not the house you want!

If you’re in the market for a home (hopefully your other debt is paid off, like we suggest, and you have a down payment), then you should be aware of what your family truly needs.  If there are 3 of you (mom, dad and baby), then a 4 bedroom house IS overkill.  If no one in the house cooks (or likes to), then you don’t REALLY need the chef’s kitchen now, do you?  You should get just as much house as is required by your families needs, that way, you can save more for the future and have your “comfortable” home paid off sooner. 

Struggling with your current home’s mortgage payment?  Maybe it’s time you downsized!  Many people get into houses that they can’t really afford, and then think there isn’t anything they can do about it, but this isn’t true.  If you bought more house than you can afford, chances are, you’re struggling.  Now, many people like to blame the banks (and there are some at fault), but they are not the only place to lay blame.  It’s easy to find and attack a scapegoat, but in reality, many people who bought more home than they could afford should have known they couldn’t afford them.  I know that the interest only loans and the ARM’s made it difficult to understand the EXACT terms of the loan, but let’s be honest…if you were approved for a $200,000 home, and you make $20,000 a year, sirens should have been going off in your head.  You should have been confused as to why you could afford so much.  You should have paused during your jumps for joy…if you were jumping for joy, saying “WOW, look what I can afford”, that WAS the warning sign! 

So, now you have more home than you can afford.  Sounds like it’s time to downsize!  I know that it can be hard to sell a home in this market, but as long as you keep your price competitive, and keep the home looking great, then you’ve got a good chance.  And something else of note?  Even if you have to take on a small personal loan to get out of the house, you’re still better off.  For example:  Let’s say your house is worth $225,000, and you put it on the market for $230,000.  Someone offers you $215,000, and they pay closing costs.  Well, after looking (really looking) at your finances, you realize you can’t afford more than a $150,000 home.  It’s better to sell the house for the offered price, take on a $10,000 personal loan, and find a house for $140,000.  You’re going to be better off, even if you did have to “take a hit” on the other house, because you will actually be able to make your mortgage payment now!  Sometimes, you just have to look at the bigger picture!

Remember, sometimes saving money IS the obvious choice.  Don’t buy more than you should.  Sounds simple, so try and live by it!

Saving time and money!

Monday, April 19th, 2010

Today I am adding a new category to our posts: Saving time.  I feel that saving time is a great compliment to saving or making money, because the more time you save on “grunt work” tasks, the more time you have to strategize on your savings and the more time you have to work and make money.  It’s a win-win!

So, as many of our regular readers now know, we’re expecting a baby this summer!  This means that we’ve been getting up to speed on ways to save on babies/children, and I can’t think of 2 things mothers and fathers need to save more than money and time!  As such, I have 2 great tips to share today!  We are attending a maternity fair (kind of like a career fair) very soon, which is a great way to save some money.  There is no admission charge, and many of the vendors offer giveaways, so you could end up with lots of free stuff!  The main sponsor of the fair, in this case a hospital, is also offering a grand prize that includes labor and delivery of your baby!  Obviously, not everyone will win, but it’s worth a couple of hours one day to try! 

Now for the time saving part…IF you do decide to check out vendor sponsored maternity fairs, or food fairs or career fairs etc., be sure to take address labels with you.  Many of these places expect a name and address to register you to win their prizes, and if you have address labels with you, you will save yourself plenty of time, so you can see/do more things at the fair!  It will make your life less stressful! 

As humans, we are always coming up with ways to save time.  Hopefully, this will benefit you in more ways than just trade shows and fairs!  Good luck!

Bad news if you plan on retiring with a nest egg…

Friday, April 16th, 2010

Today’s article. 2009 Tax Season: Last Good Year for High-Earning Americans? is short and sweet, but very important.  Now, I know many of you will read what it has to say and decide that it has nothing to do with you, but the fact of the matter is that if you plan on retiring with a nest egg, then it does, in fact, pertain to you.

The article  revolves around 3 tax problems…the Bush administration tax cuts, the Estate tax and the investment income tax.  The Bush administration tax cuts are about to expire.  This isn’t a concern for many Americans, but to those it affects, it will mean a large chunk of money out of their monthly budget. 

The Estate tax, however, will affect many more people, since it covers anyone who leaves behind an inheritance between $1 million and $10 million dollars.  Don’t think it’s a big deal to tax estates?  Well, If you’re planning on having a nest egg, saving your pennies now for retirement, then you should think it’s a big deal.  Many of you will reach the minimum $1 million dollar cut off, and if you fall into that estate range, you should know that your estate will be taxed at a 55%  tax rate!  And for most of us, we will just barely break into the $1 million dollar range, which means that you proudly managed to save up all of that money, only to have $550,000 of your $1 million dollars taken by the government.  Take my advice and start “gifting” (check into yearly limits on how much you can gift per person) some money while you’re alive if you fall in this category.

The last tax issue covered in the article is the investment income tax (also called a capital gains tax) that is slated to raise in 2013.  I know this sounds like it only affects people “on Wall Street”, but I’ve got news for you; If you have stocks, bonds, precious metals or property, and sell them for a profit (with few exceptions), then you will be feeling the raise in this tax.  Stocks and bonds outside of retirement accounts might not be something many people participate in, but lots of people buy and sell property, and if you do, you will feel the change!

I know it’s hard to look 20 or 30 years in the future and see how these things might affect you, but you have to go there.  You have to know what you’re up against.  These changes in the tax code will be painful on more of us than we are led to believe.  Remember, saving $1000 a month will (on average, based on assumed 8% return) put $1 million dollars in your bank account in 28 years.  That isn’t too far fetched.  You could definitely do that.  And given that fact, you should worry about how it will be taxed.

A neat way to save when you need some tools!

Monday, April 12th, 2010

Once spring rolls around, as it has this year, many of us find ourselves making plans for all of the things we’d like to do around the house.  From simple projects like adding new flowerbeds to large scale remodeling of a room, we want to make improvements to the place we spend the most time (hopefully you spend more time at your house than your office).  The problem with the desire to make these improvements is that the tools and other equipment required can be very expensive.  Is there a way around the high price tag?  I have 2 suggestions.

First, if you’re lucky enough to live in a few select cities throughout the U.S. (unfortunately, I am not), you can go to your local tool-lending library (find a list of cities here) and borrow the tools you need, saving perhaps hundreds of dollars per project.  This is a great idea!  I think this service should come to more cities and grow into something that can help us all save money and encourage us to learn how to maintain our own homes again.  Even a project like adding a small flowerbed involves purchasing a $200 or more tiller/cultivator (if you don’t want to have to dig the hole area out with a shovel, which, is totally fine in a money pinch).  Better to get the tools from a tool library! 

Don’t have a local tool library?  Then you’d better learn to do what we do, and that is borrow the expensive but seldom used tools from friends or family.  This is a little more tricky however, since if you don’t return the tool in the same condition in which it was given to you, you will have to replace it or run the risk of a damaged relationship with that friend or family member.  Our advice?  Treat the borrowed tool like it is on loan from a store, or has been rented.  That way, the fear of having to pay for it will keep you careful!

Clearly, I wasn’t too happy about the price of one of those tiller/cultivators after seeing the price.  As I said above, we don’t have a tool library in our area, so we are borrowing one from a family member.  The way I figure it, I just saved us $200!  Wouldn’t you like to save money this summer too?