I know that when you’re in a relationship, sometimes it’s hard to remember all of the little things you’re supposed to do for your partner. I know that we get busy, with children and jobs and PTA and social functions etc., but when you’re in a relationship, you need to remember to show appreciation to your partner. Now, I’m not saying you have to shower them with gifts, or fawn all over them all the time, but occasionally, it might be a good idea to say “I appreciate you” or “thank you”, and mean it.
Showing your appreciation to your partner doesn’t just let them know you care, it also shows them respect, and respect is a necessary component of a relationship. Why do I think these actions are so important? Because when you love somebody, you shouldn’t be focused on yourself all the time. Yes, it’s important that you have “me time” where you take care of yourself, but it’s just as important that you let you partner know how you feel. And I’m not just talking about women here…men need to know these things too!
You might not agree, and that’s ok. I’m simply sharing what works for your favorite southern couple! It’s our opinion that a function of a great couple is that both partners are willing to give up everything for the other, and that the other wouldn’t dare take everything from them. Good luck in showing your appreciation!
Questions or comments? Feel free to leave a comment, or ask a question about relationships! I’ll try to answer it to the best of my ability!
Tags: accountability, emotional piggybank, Marriage, Relationships
