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Newest bank fee is for paying off your credit card on time!

Friday, October 30th, 2009

Today’s Friday Financial News focuses on a very interesting article, brought to my attention by a friend of mine, Nicole Maxwell (a local Realtor listed under our links section on the website).  It’s an article from USA Today, titled Latest bank fee is for paying off credit card on time every month by: Sandra Block. 

The article highlights that Bank of America will start charging an annual fee (next year) on card holders, some of whom have either never carried a balance or never paid late.  The fee will range from $29 to $99.  And apparently Citigroup has already started charging annual fees to those card holders who don’t put a charge a specific amount to their cards per year!  Can we say ridiculous??  They are starting to charge us for good behavior? What a crock.  I mean, I understand that as a business they need to make money on all of their customers, and as consumers we have the right to switch, but with the bad “rep” these people have right now, you would think they wouldn’t want to upset the customers they have that can actually pay their bills.  A little money off of a responsible cardholder is better than none off of the cardholder in bankruptcy court if you ask me.

So, what’s the deal?  These fees are the credit card industry’s response to credit card legislation (voted on earlier this year).   Basically, they need ways to raise income before the new rules take effect in February, and this looks like a viable option.  It’s my opinion that they’ve got to be desperate for new revenue streams, since they’ve targeted card holders with good credit ratings, good credit history and a knack for paying their bills off at the end of the month.

The article goes into detail on ways to tackle this problem if you find yourself among those with a new annual fee for “good behavior”.    Use those if you must, but as you know, your favorite southern couple would just rather you didn’t have/use credit cards at all!

Halloween Safety Tips!

Wednesday, October 28th, 2009

Halloween is this Saturday, and since I think it is a wonderful holiday for you/your children to participate in, I wanted to share some safety tips in this post!

Tips for child Halloween activities:

  • Pick out or make a costume that will be safe. Make it flame retardant, and the eye holes should be large enough for good peripheral vision.
  • Warn children not to eat any treats before an adult has carefully examined them for evidence of tampering.
  • Treat your kids to a spooky Halloween dinner.  It will make them less likely to eat their candy before you check it for them.
  • Be sure older children TAKE FRIENDS and younger children are accompanied by a TRUSTED ADULT when “Trick or Treating” OR…
  • Know the route your kids will be taking if you aren’t going with them!
  • Explain to children the difference between tricks and vandalism.   “Egging” a house may seem like fun but they need to know that it is vandalism and the  clean up and damages can ruin Halloween. If they are caught vandalizing, make them clean up the mess they’ve made, and pay for the damages, no matter how long it takes them to pay/work it off!
  • Children should go only to homes where the outside lights are on as a sign of welcome.
  • Teach children to NEVER enter a home without prior permission from their parents or guardians.  This does not include their teenage babysitter or sibling.
  • Teach children to NEVER approach a vehicle, occupied or not, unless they are accompanied by
    a parent or adult guardian.
  • Make sure children carry a flashlight or glow stick to see and be seen.
  • Teach children if anyone tries to grab them to make a scene; scream things like “this person is not my father/mother/guardian”; and make every effort to get away by kicking, screaming, and resisting.

Tips for adult Halloween activities:

  • Keep an eye on the drinking, don’t let it get out of hand.
  • Take the keys away from anyone that may be driving, and be sure everyone knows they are welcome to sleep over, even if they have to crash on the floor.
  • Have one person stay sober and offer to drive those people home who may have had too much to drink.
  • When deciding on a menu, check and see if anyone attending the party has food allergies that might be a problem, and be sure you have a few dishes for those friends who are vegetarians!
  • Don’t forget to watch who’s coming in and out of your house.  

That’s it boys and girls!  Get out there and have fun this Halloween, but be safe! 

For more info, or the sources for these tips, check here, here and here!

Twitter for deals!

Monday, October 26th, 2009

While doing some research for Mucho Moolah topics, I ran across this topic and thought I’d pass it on.   A new trend has started to emerge on Twitter these days (when is there not a new trend on Twitter), where if you want to get discounts on things, you just need to follow certain twitterers!  Follow us at SCGuide and keep watch for upcoming products!

So, for those of you that don’t know, Twitter is a free social networking and micro blogging (normal posts aren’t longer
than 140 characters) service where users send and receive messages.  They are also able to read posts from anyone they are following (unless they have been removed from that persons’ followers list), and posts on particular trending topics.  If that didn’t make much sense to you, check out a tutorial for twitter here or read up on the service here.

So, how do you save money on Twitter? It’s simple…just follow certain users who post discount information for their
businesses!  Here are a few examples of users who disclose discounts:  @amazonmp3 for music, @JetBlueCheeps for travel discounts, @DealDivine for fashion and beauty deals and steals, @DealsPlus for general retail deals and @fstimes for giveaways and winning prizes.  Another good choice? @coupons…this could be hit or miss, but you might be able to print off some useful coupons for your weekly groceries!

So, check out these sections on Twitter if you want to save a little cash!  Good luck!

The dangerous reverse mortgage.

Friday, October 23rd, 2009

There’s a lot of talk these days about reverse mortgages, and whether or not they are a good idea.  While I think they are dangerous, I think the real danger is in people not knowing what they are and getting involved with these mortgages anyway.  It’s my opinion that you should never sign your name to anything that you do not completely understand (that is how people got into trouble with the sub prime mortgages), and therefore, you shouldn’t take out a mortgage (or other financial product) you don’t understand.

So, what is a reverse mortgage?  Well, you can read the full description here, but a simple explanation is that it is a loan for senior citizens, used to release (give back to the owner) the equity of the property as one lump sum or multiple payments over time. The home owner’s obligation to repay the loan is deferred until the owner dies, the home is sold, or the owner leaves (usually going to a long term care facility). 

Today’s article (CNN Money Blog post) is titled Reverse mortgages: Sub prime mess déjà vu?, by Carla Fried.  It looks at how a lot of retirees are taking out reverse mortgages, since they have insufficient nest eggs to carry them through retirement, and how a lot of people, Comptrollor of the Currency John Dugan included, think these financial products have some of the same characteristics as sub prime mortgages.  Considering the mess to which the sub prime mortgages contributed, that should definitely make us be wary of these products.

Some resources to check into, if you want to learn even more about reverse mortgages and their pitfalls, are as follows:

  • AARP.org – A section on this website is dedicated educating seniors on reverse mortgage basics, their alternatives and ways that the financial product might be abused.  Check out the web page here.
  • U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development – An informative website put on by the government.  It’s not as suspicious of the reverse mortgage product as the AARP website, but it still speaks of the dangers of scam artists peddling information that they give away on their website for free!

I know that there are some people who think these products have their place, but I have to disagree.  As I have said, I’m fine with 15 yeaar fixed rate mortgages, but products like these, just seem to part people with their money.  Make your own choice, but don’t say I didn’t warn you.

Up close and personal…what’s happening in retail as the holiday season starts?

Wednesday, October 21st, 2009

This past weekend, since I had a couple of things to pick up, and it was the start of our Christmas shopping, your favorite southern couple went to the mall .  While we were out, we decided to do a little economic research that we are now going to share with you.  I won’t be sharing any names of stores or people, as I want to respect the privacy of these people, since they were only used for discovering general information.

The first bit of information I wanted to share is definitely exciting, and that is that more people are paying with cash!  According to certain retailers (these businesses do not sell luxury goods, just so you don’t think I’m speaking of $1,000 handbags or something), a significant number of their sales so far this year have been in cash, compared with last year, where there were more credit card sales.  This is a wonderful bit of information!  Now, it’s a small sample, and it’s in my local community, but hopefully it’s at least partially indicative of the way people are shopping this season.  I hope that it means more people have saved up for the holidays this year, and aren’t spending more than they make!

Another bit of information we ran across from a national retailer is that the sales are not going to be as good as they were last year (I know, bummed me out too)!  According to our source, last year, many of the typical stores you find in your local mall got caught with a ton of extra inventory and slashed prices to be able to move the inventory toward the end of the holiday season.  This was great for people, last year, but it also means that they learned their lesson, and this year, retailers won’t (or haven’t) have ordered as much inventory, so the deals that were there last year, won’t be there this year.  This is some really unfortunate information, but at least it will keep us focused on finding the best deals this season! 

All in all, I still think it is going to be a wonderful holiday season.  Just keep in mind that cash is the way to go.  Not only will it save you from being credit card poor in January and February (and March?), but it will keep you focused on getting the best possible price!   Look out for deals that aren’t deals.  Compare prices.  Use lay-a-way (making payments on an item that you will not be able to take home until the item is completely paid for) and just be sensible.  Remember how your parents and grandparents shopped for the holidays…they saved for it!

Need some extra holiday cash? Try selling your old stuff on Ebay!

Monday, October 19th, 2009

Today’s Mucho Moolah tip is a way to make money by selling your old stuff on Ebay!  Many of you have heard about Ebay, and would like to try selling stuff on there, but you aren’t sure how, or you’re afraid you will do something wrong.  Don’t be scared!  It’s only hard if you don’t educate yourself first!

The first place you should start is the Seller Information Center at Ebay.  From there you can create an account, check out tips on selling, creating buyer confidence and “bone up” on Ebay policies.  This is a very good resource that is provided by Ebay.   It’s important that your information come from reputable sources, because, like every other aspect of buying and selling, there is a chance you’re dealing with a dangerous individual or website.

Another resource I found is a website called MIStupid.com, an online knowledge magazine.  Their Ebay selling section can bee found here.  This is an actual video tutorial on how to sell things on Ebay, which might be better for those people who are visual learners, as opposed to reading to learn.  It’s a free service (at least the part on selling on Ebay is), so feel free to watch it a few times to get proficient.

The last resource I found is an “Internet for beginners” section on About.com, where they cover buying and selling on Ebay.  Check out the web page here.  This is a very informative source that also includes information on what you pay to market your things on Ebay and how to use Paypal, an e-commerce business allowing you to make or accept payments through the Internet.  PayPal is an electronic alternative to traditional payment methods such as checks and money orders.  Paypal is a very important part of Ebay, since, logically, if you want to sell something, you have to be able to accept payment for it!

I’d like to add that if you research the items you want to sell, or items you pick up at flea markets and decide to turn around and sell, you can get more for your items.  Good luck with it, and happy selling!

Malcolm Gladwell’s 10,000 hour rule!

Friday, October 16th, 2009

Today’s post is based on a blog post by Dan Miller, author of 48 Days to the Work You Love.  On October 12th, he wrote about a chapter in the new book Outliers, by Malcolm Gladwell, called the 10,000 hours rule.  Are you intrigued? You should be!  Find the original blog post here.

Basically, the jist of the 10,000 hour rule is that the author’s research shows that it’s rare for a person to get to the top of their game in their chosen field without putting in at least 10,000 hours of preparation. 

Raw talent is apparently not as important as the time you devote to your passion…to that thing you do better than everyone else.  No matter who you are and where you came from, no one gets to the top without the 10,000 hours.  And, supposing you want to get to the top of your field, that means you’ve got to WORK!  In a 40 hour work week, you can finish those 10,000 hours in 5 years.  If you’re doing a part time job at 20 hours a week, that’s 10 years.  If you’re working 60 hours a week, that means you’ll finish in 2 1/2 years, but it also means you don’t have a work-life balance, and I can’t agree with that! 

Where are you putting your hours in?  Are you putting effort in the areas of your life that matter the most, or are you leaving work, coming home and turning into a couch potato?  I truly hope you’re not ignoring your family in exchange for mindless channel surfing.  And hey, if the area of your life that matters most, that you want to be excellent at is your relationship with your partner, I’m totally cool with that!  So long as you are putting in the hours and are excellent at something you love, your favorite southern couple is behind you!

Show your appreciation!

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

I know that when you’re in a relationship, sometimes it’s hard to remember all of the little things you’re supposed to do for your partner.  I know that we get busy, with children and jobs and PTA and social functions etc., but when you’re in a relationship, you need to remember to show appreciation to your partner.  Now, I’m not saying you have to shower them with gifts, or fawn all over them all the time, but occasionally, it might be a good idea to say “I appreciate you” or “thank you”, and mean it. 

Showing your appreciation to your partner doesn’t just let them know you care, it also shows them respect, and respect is a necessary component of a relationship.  Why do I think these actions are so important?  Because when you love somebody, you shouldn’t be focused on yourself all the time.  Yes, it’s important that you have “me time” where you take care of yourself, but it’s just as important that you let you partner know how you feel.  And I’m not just talking about women here…men need to know these things too!  

You might not agree, and that’s ok.  I’m simply sharing what works for your favorite southern couple!  It’s our opinion that a function of a great couple is that both partners are willing to give up everything for the other, and that the other wouldn’t dare take everything from them.  Good luck in showing your appreciation!

Questions or comments?  Feel free to leave a comment, or ask a question about relationships!  I’ll try to answer it to the best of my ability!

3 tips to save on childcare, medicine and pet care!

Monday, October 12th, 2009

Today’s tips revolve around 3 areas of life that most of us would be happy to find a way to cut costs, no matter what our age or socioeconomic status is: childcare, medicine and pet care!

A great way to save money on childcare is to make friends with another family who has a child and go in on a babysitter together!  Think about it!  If you both only have 1 child, then the sitter would charge you each, say, for example $10 an hour.  But you would only be charged $14 or $15 an hour if you had 2 children, so combine your kids, and save some cash!  Then, each family is only responsible for $7.50 an hour!

For medicine, you need to talk to your doctor and see if they will write the prescription for double the dosage.  If they will, you can cut your pills in half to get your necessary dosage, and only need to buy your prescription every other month!  It might not save a ton of money, but as much as healthcare is in the news these days, I think everyone wants to save money, even a little, on their healthcare costs!

As far as pet care goes, when you go away and board your pet, you are paying a premium.  Instead, try finding other pet owners who are willing to watch your pet in exchange for you watching their pet!  You save on the boarding bill, and they will probably get more loving care that way too!  If you have a pet that doesn’t do well when you’re gone, and a boarding place is your only option, do worry, there are other ways to save!  find local pet grooming schools, and take your pet to be groomed there!  The discount is usually in the neighborhood of 40%, compared with operating grooming establishments.  Lastly, and honestly, I can’t believe such a thing exists, much less that I am having to talk about it, but drop your pet insurance.  I mean really, the amount you pay for such insurance than you would save in vet bills!   Understand, I have 2 cats that I love and want to live forever, but when their time comes, I will not be bankrupting myself just to make them live on a few extra weeks, probably in pain.   So save your money on the pet insurance…it probably won’t work out to your monetary benefit in the long run anyway.

There you have it!  3 tips that will hopefully save you some money THIS month! 

Additionally, we would love to start taking questions from our readers.  If you have a money question, or a relationship question (about how we make it work)  that you would like answered, feel free to leave a comment, and we will review and post the relevant questions!  Thanks for reading!

Being single also means being more likely to be without a job!

Friday, October 9th, 2009

Today’s article, No spouse, no job: Unemployment hits singles hard, by George Mannes is an interesting look at some statistics that have come out recently regarding unemployment. 

The numbers for unemployment in September show that it rose to 9.8%, and that it might hit 10% in the near future.  But as bad as the overall unemployment rate is, the breakdown of single versus married people is interesting…it’s almost double!  In August, the rate was 13.5% unemployment for singles and 6.3% unemployment for married people!  The article points out that a likely reason is that married men are motivated to take a lower paying job, to be able to support their families, and that single people are typically younger and have less education and experience than their married counterparts (this, of course, is just supposition).  There is also a difference in those with a high school education versus a Bachelor’s degree or higher.  Only 4.9% with a Bachelor’s degree are unemployed, versus 10.8% with only a high school education (a good argument for staying in school and going to college).

There is also disparity amongst race, gender, and age.  And, while these statistics are interesting to me, I have to think that there are ALWAYS discrepancies amongst employment based on race, gender and age, since the people in the work force are constantly changing.  I’m not taking away from the fact that these people are suffering.  There are a lot of people out there suffering, and I wish them a job…pronto.

Here is the breakdown:

  • African Americans – 15.4%
  • Hispanics – 12.7%
  • Caucasions  9.0%
  • Asians – 7.4%
  • Adult Women – 7.8%
  • Adult Men – 10.3%
  • Teenagers – 25.9%

Overall, I’m most intrigued by the stats on single people.  If single people are more likely to be jobless due to their unwillingness to take lower pay, I say that it is their choice!   As long as they have an emergency fund in place to carry them through this tough spot and/or are working a part time job til they find the “perfect job”, so be it!  And for those of you who are married, taking lower paying jobs, don’t forget your worth!  No matter what your situation, having an emergency fund and being prepared for a job loss will help you weather any storm!